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Marriage is not a game of building a house for the children, it will be built with Yateœ if they want, and it will be torn to pieces if they want. Marriage is not only a fulfillment of biological needs, it is also an act of worship. Just as there is guidance from Allah regarding marriage, there is also a description of its effective method from the Prophet (peace be upon him). The mentality of marrying whomever you want, is the name of defiling the sacred relationship like marriage. For those who get married just for the sake of fulfilling their physical needs, marriage is an object of pleasure but marriage has a special status in Islamic law. Through this the character and honor of the boy and girl are as safe as ever. In the same way, sweet relationship of kinship is created in the family. A unique, decent and beautiful example is presented in the continuity of Allah's creation. The fact that man is the best of all animals is also manifested by the incomparable bond of marriage. Because there is no marital relationship between any animal except man. But everyone has the mentality to meet the biological needs. In order to be free from arrogance, nudity and filth, the Islamic Shari'a has made marriage an inviolable rule to meet the biological needs. At the same time, by requiring a seal, accommodation, alimony, etc., marriage has become a means of a meaningful relationship. But it is a matter of regret that some brothers have made this beautiful and decent sweet relationship a joke due to their ignorance of religion. Just as there is no binding to get married, there is no thought or divorce for divorce. It's like a boy's game. He built it if he wanted to. He broke it if he wanted to. Everyone has to survive from such childishness. At the time of marriage, such as keeping the Islamic Shariah in mind, one should meditate, talk to the family, and consult with the elders. In the same way, in case of divorce, the decision should be taken after thinking about the religion. Just as it is foolish to get married in a hurry, it is also foolish to get divorced in a hurry. Your body is based on the blood and sweat of your parents. Your body has been rejuvenated by their sacrifice. It is needless to say how much wood your parents had to burn to irrigate this energy of your body, this insanity of youth. Numerous sleepless nights of mother, longing to save you even while standing at the door of death, earning by watering father's blood has slowly made you youthful. Has made you weak and strong. But when making such a big decision like marriage, did you forget the opinion of those parents? Getting married without the consent of parents is an inhuman and sinful act. It is no less sinful to chase away a girl who has left her parents, home and everything and rushed to you just for you. It is not right to marry without their parents' consent. And divorcing a girl who is currently married will also be inhuman and cruel. So you try to convince your parents. Divorce will not be permissible just because "your parents are not accepting the marriage". َْمَّا بِعْتِبَارِ أَصْلِ الْجَوَازِ فَلَا يَلْزَمُهُ طَلَاقُ زَوْجَةٍ مَمَررَاهُ بِفِرَاقِهَا ، إِنْ تَأَذَّيًا بِ لِأَنَّهُ قَدْ يَحْصُلُ لَهُ ضَرَرٌ بِهَا ، فَلَا يُكَلَّفَهُ لِأَجْلِهِمَا إذ من شأن شفقتهما أنهما لو تحققا ذلك لم يأمراه به فإلزامهما له مع ذلك حمق منهما, ولا يلتفت إليه, (مرقاة المفاتيح, باب الكبائر, الفصل الثالث -1 / 132) وأما الطلاق فإن الأصل فيه الحظر, بمعنى أنه محظور إلا لعارض يبيحه, وهو معنى قولهم الأصل فيه الحظر والإباحة للحاجة إلى الخلاص, فإذا كان بلا سبب أصلا لم يكن فيه حاجة إلى الخلاص بل يكون حمقا وسفاهة رأي ومجرد كفران النعمة وإخلاص الإيذاء بها وبأهلها وأولادها, (رد المحتار, كتاب الطلاق -4 / 428, منحة الخالق على Al-Bahr al-Ra'iq-3/413) Note: The only document that is acceptable to us is not the Qur'an and Sahih Hadith. Our accepted documents are four. Namely- 1-Quran. 2-Sunnat. 3-Ummah in consensus. 4-Qiyas Shari. The provisions of Islamic law are proved by these four things. Not just by Quran and Sahih Hadith. Asking for documents from the Qur'an and Sahih Hadith means indirectly refusing to accept the other two documents, namely Ijma and Qiyas. At the same time, among the innumerable types of hadiths, only one type of hadith can be considered as documentary and the denial of innumerable hadiths is a nomenclature. Because Hadith is not only Sahih. Hasan becomes Lijatihi, Hasan becomes Ligairihi, Mursal becomes etc. and Hadith. Therefore, statements like "I want documents of Quran and Sahih Hadith" should be avoided. 2481286718