
Question
Is it permissible to meet a girl for marriage? What is the method of meeting if it is permissible? 1838125324
Answer
- حامداومصلياومسلما، بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم -
It is permissible to see a girl for marriage subject to certain conditions. E.g.
- Someone present in the mahram of the daughter.
- Don't be late.
- Don't get caught up in unnecessary talk.
- Meet for the purpose of marriage.
- Take a look.But the best way is to look behind the scenes. Not going forward. Because when this happens, the door of sin is opened by the boy and the girl sitting together for a long time and talking. Adultery, obscenity and insulting girls are created.The practice of seeing a girl in our country is completely against the Shariah. The way the girl is seen, it is as if she has gone to the market to buy cows. The way the hands, feet, hair, walking, speech and writing are examined is not justifiable in any way. Seeing a daughter in this way is an illegal act as well as a violation of humanity. Only the victim can understand how much the emotional state of a girl is broken when she does not do it after seeing a girl by beating the drum.Islam did not force it because it allowed the bride to see. The bride has to look her best during this time, because of posterity more than anything else. So the best way to stop the current fitna would be to hide the news from a distance or not. But if you do not want to get married, just go to see, then it will be haram. 7388581947
- والله اعلم باالصواب -
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Source
- ফাতাওয়া মাহমুদিয়া, Part: 16, Page: 43
- سنن ابن ماجه, Hadith No.: 1,864
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