Attention should be paid to obeying Shari'i laws on love and marriage 8647414592

It is forbidden for strangers to meet each other before marriage, to talk unnecessarily. So these should be avoided. If you feel the need for marriage, it is best to get married in the family. So that there is no problem later. And the relationship does not break. Since you are young, you may not be able to take the right decision if you go to make a decision on your own. Due to lack of experience, wrong decisions can also be taken. Which will only lead to regret for the rest of your life. Therefore, decisions should be taken after thinking and discussing with the elders. However, if you want to secretly marry without informing the family, then you must do it in the Kazi office. Also keep it registered. It is not required in Shari'ah. But it is socially important. Because, if the wife does not like it after two days, it is not possible to leave her because the marriage has not been registered. However, the marriage is solemnized by saying the proposal and acceptance in front of two witnesses. But it is important to register the marriage now to protect it from environmental damage. The rest is up to you to decide. Jazakallah في الدر المختر- (و) شرط (حدور) شهدين (حرين) و حر وحرتين (مكلفين سامعين قولهما معا) (الدر المختر, كتاب النكاح,-3/9) Translation-The condition for the marriage to be valid is the mukallaf of the Shari’ah (on whom the law of the Shari’ah imposed) shall be two independent male witnesses or one independent male and two female witnesses, who shall be present and hear both the proposition and acceptance. (Ad Durrul Mukhtar-3/9, Fatwae Hindia-1/268) قُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ذَلِكَ أَزْكَى لَهُمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ ۞ وَقُلْ لِلْ مُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ الخ It is mentioned in the Holy Qur'an - "Tell the believers to lower their eyes and guard their private parts." This is the holiest path for them. Allah is well aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their eyes and guard their private parts. (Surah Noor-30, 31) رَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَعْرُوفًا ۞ وَقَرْنَ فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلَا تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ الْأُولَى O wives of the Prophet! You are not like other women (Jewish Christians). If you fear Allah, do not speak modestly, so that those who have manhood among them may be attracted to you. Instead, you speak normally. And stay in your dwellings. (Surah Ahzab-32) عن عقبة بن عامر أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم said فقل رجل من النصار يا رسول الله عفرأيت الحمو ? قال (الحمو الموت) On the authority of Hazrat Uqba bin Amer RA. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Avoid entering women (alone). A person among the Ansar said - 'O Messenger of Allah! What is the instruction about Devar?' He said - 'Devarto is like death'". (Sahih Bukhari, Hadith No-4934, Sahih Muslim, Hadith No-5803, Al Muzamul Kabir, Hadith No-736, Sunan Bayhaqi, Hadith No-13296, Sunan Tirmidhi, Hadith No-1171, Sunan Darimi, Hadith No-2642, Sunan Nasa'i, Hadith No-9216, Sahih Ibn Hibban, Hadith No-5588, Musnad Abi Awana, Hadith No-4032, Musnad Ahmad, Hadith No-17396, Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaiba, Hadith No-17954) عن ابن عمر said: ختبنا عمر بالجابية الخ إلا لا يخلون رجل بامرة إلا كان ثلاحتهما الشيطان Narrated by Hazrat Omar رضي الله عنه. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that whenever a man meets a woman in private, Satan appears as a third person. (Sunan Tirmidhi, Hadith No-2165, Sahih Ibn Hibban, Hadith No-5586) 9668972675