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What to do if mother-in-law is in a bad mood 8278545127

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Question

What will the mother-in-law do if she is in a bad mood? 3642462955


Answer

- حامداومصلياومسلما، بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم -

According to Islamic law, it is not obligatory on the wife to serve the mother-in-law. But from an ethical point of view it is an urgent matter. A wife leaves her parents and comes to her husband's house. Here, if the husband's mother can be considered as his own mother, the husband's father can be considered as his own father, then the problem is solved. At the same time, if the father-in-law and the mother-in-law consider the daughter-in-law as their daughter, then there should be no unrest in the family. This conflict between wife and mother-in-law is the only reason for the lack of this attitude. If you have endured a little hardship for the helpless old man, even if it is your own hardship, then we are hopeful that Allah Almighty will give you many rewards and virtues for your patience. So I'm telling you as our sister, try to stay together without bothering the old man. This time will come to you one day. As a person ages, many symptoms naturally occur. I want to talk in vain. The mentality of harassing like children is created. So try to stay together by forgiving all these on your own. Even if the rest is not possible to stay together. Then it is permissible to separate. It is legal for you to live in a separate accommodation. But for your husband to take full care of his mother, it is necessary to serve as much as possible. It will not be permissible for him to hurt his mother in any way. No matter how bad the mother is, it is haraam to hurt her without a legitimate reason. يا أيها الذين آمنوا استعينوا بالصبر والصلاة إن الله مع الصابرين (سورة البقرة -153 وقضى ربك ألا تعبدوا إلا إياه وبالوالدين إحسانا إما يبلغن عندك الكبر أحدهما أو كلاهما فلا تقل لهما أف ولا تنهرهما وقل لهما قولا كريما ۞ واخفض لهما جناح الذل من الرحمة وقل رب ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ة24 7445872424

- والله اعلم باالصواب -

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Source

  • Surah: বাক্বারা, Verse: 153
  • Surah: سورة الإسراء, Verse: 24